Responsibility = check (two weeks on Craigslist with only one response identifying it to have diamonds = wrong).
Emotional baggage = check (see above photograph).
Solicited advice from anyone who would listen = check.
Best advice received from Pat (below):
a few things to dwell upon....
this sounds like a premise for a body of work on your part, as gold
comes with its own baggage, aside from your personal baggage.for one thing, any gold you have in your possession must, by the
laws of probability and of history, have molecules of gold melted down
from the whole world's treasures and possessions, ancient and modern.
therefore, a gold ring contains bits from the
various pharoah's melted treasures, plus the many artifacts of the
ancient, medieval and modern world that were melted down time and time
again. Gold is the one material that seems to be infinitely recyclable.
You are getting your gold back, the same mix
of gold your wedding ring was made from.
so
whatever emotional baggage the found ring seems to possess, that very
gold - cold, incorruptible, neutral - has had a billion tears of
gratitude
and sorrow shed over it by countless human beings. The tragedy / loss
of the particular ring now in your possession, whether it was an
unfortunate accident or a deliberate act of ridding oneself of an
intolerable burden, was one of many lost and found moments
for the gold. It is now yours.
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